Divorcing a Narcissist with Tina Swithin
Divorcing a Narcissist with Tina Swithin
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Divorcing a Narcissist 101
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For those of you just starting out, those who are new to this nightmare of divorcing a narcissist… You've come to the right place. One Mom's Battle is a community of warriors… of survivors… some of the most amazing people you will ever encounter.
NEW Children's Book: Everyone is Beautiful
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Everyone is Beautiful: Follow six children as they explore their neighborhoods and meet new people along the way. These six children discovered the differences and beauty in each person they meet. Embark on this endearing story with your little one and then head out into the world to celebrate the beauty in the people you encounter. a.co/d/bFO1fZI
The Children Are Coming
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#TheChildrenAreComing For decades, children have been treated like property in the family court system. Parental rights take priority over child safety. Even with allegations (or findings) of abuse, children and teenagers are often forced into a relationship with a parent they've rejected. Family court professionals are pushing an agenda of “pro contact” at all costs, to the detriment of childr...
Press conference on Kayden’s Law with Senator Phil Fortunato in Washington state
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OLYMPIA… Flanked by victims and advocates at a news conference in Olympia on Thursday, state Sen. Phil Fortunato outlined his vision to reform the state’s failing family courts. Included in the package are bills aimed at training judges, providing more protections for abuse victims - mostly women and children - and setting improved standards for evidence and procedures in family court. One of t...
Family court crisis: mother from Boston, Massachusetts, loses custody of her children.
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I would like you to meet Christina K. Pierce, a 38-year-old mother from Boston, Massachusetts. Her daughter is nine-years old and her son is five-years old. Her daughter had a mental health crisis and allegations of abuse were made against the children’s father. When something like this is unfolding, there is no rulebook. It is a mother‘s worst nightmare. In these cases, mothers follow the adv...
Piqui’s Law: From Tragedy to Change
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In 2017, Piqui was murdered by his father in California, failed by family court professionals. His death was absolutely preventable. In 2018, Piqui’s Resolution was passed in California and in 2023, lawmakers and advocates are working to pass Piqui’s Law, SB331 (Rubio). 
Press Conference: Testimony of Maya and Sebastian Laing
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State Senator Susan Rubio's press conference prior to judiciary committee hearing for SB331, Piqui's Law.
Coffee with Tina: Divorcing a Narcissist
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Today's question: How to handle a narcissistic ex-husband who doesn't follow the court order, or the schedule? He puts our child in the middle, pays support late and sends belittling, accusatory emails often. FINE PRINT: I am not an attorney. I am NOT qualified to give you legal advice. We are a community of survivors who come together and talk about divorcing narcissists or high conflict, toxi...
Divorcing a Narcissist: Coffee with Tina
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QUESTION: What to say when my toddler talks about how “bad” dad is? Child is sad and confused. FINE PRINT: I am not an attorney. I am NOT qualified to give you legal advice. We are a community of survivors who come together and talk about divorcing a narcissist or, child custody issues when a narcissist is involved. Always consult with your attorney -your attorney is your voice and your advocat...
Dealing with a Narcissist: Holiday Survival Guide
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Don’t let anyone gaslight you (word of the YEAR, by the way!) - if you are feeling the post separation abuse intensify, let me be the first to validate you. It’s real, it’s common and predicable. During the holidays, we see these toxic individuals spiral into a dark, rage-filled abyss and they escalate in their attempts at creating chaos and conflict. You may wonder, why? What is it about the h...
Reunification Camps: The Story of Maya and Sebastian Laing
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In mid-October of 2022, 15-year-old Maya Laing of Santa Cruz, California took to Instagram to share her story and to ask for help. One of the individuals she reached out to and tagged in her videos was Tina Swithin, of One Mom’s Battle who has been a vocal advocate against the cottage industry of "alienation professionals" and, practices of reunification camps which are strikingly similar to th...
Reunification Camp: Transporters and Maya and Sebastian Laing
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On October 20, 2022, Maya and Sebastian Laing were violently removed from their preferred parent (their father) by Assisted Interventions, Inc., a privately contracted company via a court order handed down by family court judge Rebecca Connolly from Watsonville, California. Ordered into Lynn Steinberg's 4-day reunification camp, an unregulated and highly controversial but lucrative industry, as...
Reunification Camps: Exposing the Alienation Industry
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In the Family Court System, reunification camps are very much the "troubled child or troubled teen industry" however, these are not troubled children or troubled teens. These are children who want to be heard, who deserve to be heard and who become a threat when they try to use their voice to advocate for themselves. We need to stop infantilizing children and teenagers and we need to place thei...
Demanding Justice for Maya and Sebastian Laing
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Lots of people have questions about this case and I wanted to speak from my heart and share my opinions on that topic and more. I also wanted to invite anyone in the Santa Cruz area or surrounding areas to join us on Thursday night at 7:30 PM Pacific time for a candlelight vigil, details to be announced. Also we are meeting at 8 AM at the Watsonville courthouse on Friday morning to demand justi...
Divorcing a narcissist: what to do when the judge doesn't like me?
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QUESTION: What to do when you feel a judge is totally against you?FINE PRINT: I am not an attorney. I am NOT qualified to give you legal advice. We are a community of survivors who come together and talk about divorcing a narcissist or, child custody issues when a narcissist is involved. Always consult with your attorney -your attorney is your voice and your advocate in and out of the courtroom...
How do you reassure your children that you love them despite a narcissist's efforts
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How do you reassure your children that you love them despite a narcissist's efforts
Therapist for children: how much history to provide?
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Therapist for children: how much history to provide?
Divorcing a Narcissist with Tina Swithin
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Divorcing a Narcissist with Tina Swithin
Advice for those in Pro Se (Pro Per) in Family Court
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Advice for those in Pro Se (Pro Per) in Family Court
Divorcing a Narcissist: Helping Our Children Feel Empowered
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Divorcing a Narcissist: Helping Our Children Feel Empowered
When Judges, Lawyers and Parenting Coordinators ignore Post Separation Abuse
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When Judges, Lawyers and Parenting Coordinators ignore Post Separation Abuse
Family Court in the United States of America
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Family Court in the United States of America
When Your Children do not want to go with their Narcissistic Parent
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When Your Children do not want to go with their Narcissistic Parent
Divorcing a Narcissist - Hot off the Press
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Divorcing a Narcissist - Hot off the Press
Dear Family Court Judge
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Dear Family Court Judge
My Family Court Saga Continues - San Luis Obispo Superior Court
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My Family Court Saga Continues - San Luis Obispo Superior Court
Open Message to Governor Newsom: It's a Family Court Crisis
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Open Message to Governor Newsom: It's a Family Court Crisis
Fraudulent Promises of the Family Court System
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Fraudulent Promises of the Family Court System
San Luis Obispo, California Proclamation: Family Court Awareness Month
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San Luis Obispo, California Proclamation: Family Court Awareness Month
Kicking Off Family Court Awareness Month 2021
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Kicking Off Family Court Awareness Month 2021

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @debbieg1406
    @debbieg1406 7 днів тому

    How do I get a copy or down load of the Post Separation Abuse wheel?

  • @debbieg1406
    @debbieg1406 7 днів тому

    All so true. Thank you❤

  • @ericcartman7600
    @ericcartman7600 8 днів тому

    You helped so many kids. I just needed to tell you how cool you are. ❤

  • @LadybugPhil413
    @LadybugPhil413 14 днів тому

    This is exactly my experience. Our divorce was 2010. He's still lying about the money he makes in court. It's awful.

  • @andreamarie1985
    @andreamarie1985 16 днів тому

    Hopefully that judge is removed. It sounds like her little ego was hurt so she decided to hurt this woman’s children to get even.

  • @The_BlackDragon
    @The_BlackDragon 17 днів тому

    I’m a man who has 3 daughters and their mother has narcissistic personality and sociopath behaviours. Its sad to see all this work done without sex discrimination. The empowerment and low self esteem can also be bad for a mother’s behaviour to her children. No comments on equality, justice, respect and professionalism from me here 😅

    • @OneMomsBattle
      @OneMomsBattle 17 днів тому

      I was raised by my father, who was the healthier of my two parents. With that said, there is a reality to the work I do: statistics and research shows that men are far more likely to have these personality disorders, and, I speak from my own personal experience.

  • @71Bopper
    @71Bopper 24 дні тому

    Just listened to What came next podcast with Tina and she mentioned Christie. Thankful for women like this all over the world 🙏🤗

  • @saintriss
    @saintriss 25 днів тому

    This method is how u survived ten years in the call center business. Spoke with a handful of narcissistic customers per day, yellow rocking was the only way through those conversations.

  • @brittanygomez4599
    @brittanygomez4599 Місяць тому

    This was hard to watch and I’m very sorry. Now the children are living with their abuser cut off from their safe parent. Almost happened to me and my kid. I swore I’d sue the judge that ordered my son to spend weeks at a time with his other parent because I thought my son wouldn’t return.. only in a casket. This system is so F-CKED!

  • @brandonwhisnant4325
    @brandonwhisnant4325 Місяць тому

    Tina, you are a disgrace. To claim Parental Alienation isn’t real is pathetic. In fact, I challenge you to do some interviewing with me to prove everything you claim here is false and the damage you were causing to children by denying facts is horrid. I’ll wait…

  • @stacysplace3392
    @stacysplace3392 Місяць тому

    I need a therapist for my teen son, in ohio. We have joint custody. Its been hell. Please help.

    • @OneMomsBattle
      @OneMomsBattle Місяць тому

      If we had any recommendations, it would be at www.friendsofOMB .com

  • @Astroponicist
    @Astroponicist Місяць тому

    my comment will be deleted.

  • @jasonhemstreet8396
    @jasonhemstreet8396 Місяць тому

    What does the father’s rights movement have to do with this discussion. So in general you assume men are always the narc! It’s clear what your true message is here. What about a woman who uses manipulation, false allegations, and other tactics to control a father’s love and freedom to parent. Father’s rights are human rights! A father’s love is just as great as a mother’s. Time for true equality. No one should be abused but the fact remains men and woman both deal with toxic x partners. All the fathers I associate are good healthy men. Please explain what your issues are with father’s rights? You think men haven’t been through the wringer in this system. What are your credentials?

  • @PSILOVEYOUJAMESBLUNT
    @PSILOVEYOUJAMESBLUNT Місяць тому

    I am going through a divorce of hell. I am glad I found out about OMB today. I will be reaching out tomorrow. Thank you.

  • @sopheadutch6350
    @sopheadutch6350 Місяць тому

    Okay, I'm so sorry this happened to you because it happened to me too. FYI, to all the women, single mothers, married, or whatever your status is as a parent, the court system Nation wide (United States), the court system is COMING FOR ALL MOTHERS (I chose not to have children but I was raped and I decided to keep my child and this p.o.s still come after my child eventhough, the p.o.s was not involved during pregnancy/told me to "get rid of it" and he got another c*** pregnant and not paying her child support either). This is correct, you hear me right because you do not have to be on drugs, alcoholics, or child abuse record, the court will side with the father if the piece of s*** just decided to fight for custody. I do not know the reasons behind this "overhaul" of custody granting to the p.o.s (sperm donors) across america, but I do know from losing custody in 2019 until today (present day) where I can only have supervised phone-calls and supervised everything when seeing my 1 and only child who was taken from me at age 8 & 1/2 and now he is 13 years old (completely Brainwashed by the p.o.s and his clown posse b*** c*** stu*** other side)...my son became so sensitive that I cannot even say anything to him w/o him crying to them and them coming at me like: "stop saying negative stuff to him, YOU DID THAT TO HIM" (TRUST ME, I understand what you are going through). But, I will pray for your children safety and hope for them to be okay...I'm so sorry. My child is unharmed, thankfully, but as mothers, you understand what I am saying and I understand your pain too (so f***ing ridiculous). You have to stay active and strong for those kids. I am staying strong for my son if I don't, I don't know what his status would have been (his current status would not have been like he is now, i.e. playing afterschool sports or competitive soccer, his current C*** thief wife would probably continue to badmouth and intimidate my son, I know that for sure). When I say stay strong and active, I mean..for example, call the school, check on your children at public places and where they are throughout the day. Making sure the places that they are at, knows that you are a concerned parent and let them know the child status, like what your rights are in terms of where those children public locations are. The court is completely a sham, they are punishing the mothers for some odd reasons. And to those women who do not have children yet, please do not have children, esp. the ones who are unsure, just don't have children or you will suffer this situation. You are welcome.

  • @denisericcardi4902
    @denisericcardi4902 Місяць тому

    Tina, I'm just curious how you reacted to your "narcisstic ex's" remarks? Were you certain to tell your children how wrong their father is by his comments? Which it sounds like you did and what was their reaction to your assessment of their father? The book sounds great!

  • @whambamclick1
    @whambamclick1 Місяць тому

    You're not beautiful. You are a advocate for child psychological abuse.

  • @dubiehouser
    @dubiehouser Місяць тому

    This is eerie… Court does nothing for these situations except worsen it. Court is church for a narc where they make the most salacious claims that are entertained

  • @sniper5391
    @sniper5391 Місяць тому

    I actually subscribed to you. I listen to 100s of videos and I really resided with you. Thank so much for these videos. I’m glad I’m not alone in this journey I hope you can update us. On your journey, just as inspiration. I feel like I just entered a dark tunnel and I’m trying to find the light.

  • @persephonelove4680
    @persephonelove4680 Місяць тому

    Im so sorry :(. I just lost custody based on a bunch of BS by opposing counsel and i am crushed! How does this keep happening?!

  • @SilentBlueBird4
    @SilentBlueBird4 2 місяці тому

    This is beyond belief... it's happening everywhere... i can relate so much to her story, no matter what happens... the mother is blamed and scrutinised. It breaks my heart to see a mum who has done nothing but try to love and protect her children. I am sending you love and light ! You should be proud of what you've done in the face of pure evil.

  • @carmengonzalez7531
    @carmengonzalez7531 2 місяці тому

    She should be talking yo herself....she's an attention Secret even now, going to a Billy Joe concert and dancing to uptown girl.Come on, lady, you're almost 70 years old.Get over it already.You need to cut your hair and after age😮

  • @woodspriteful
    @woodspriteful 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for what you do, Tina. Like all the Greats, from MLK to Jesus, those who hate have found your channel and been compelled to attack you. Just remember it is because they recognize your strength and truth. When a wounded healer inhabits Truth and Strength, they will be targeted, which is really sad. These commentators have little power compared to the tyranical powers in the legal system, so I'm sure it doesn't phase you.

    • @OneMomsBattle
      @OneMomsBattle 2 місяці тому

      That is very kind and I appreciate your support

  • @woodspriteful
    @woodspriteful 2 місяці тому

    npdandlaw santa clara study on high conflict personalities in family court is down online

  • @woodspriteful
    @woodspriteful 2 місяці тому

    The child alienation strategy is a means through which to justify alienating the protective parent (DARVO - reverse abuser and victim to manifest the projected claim).

  • @Mamabirdrosie
    @Mamabirdrosie 2 місяці тому

    Congratulations, Tina ❤beautiful story

  • @annepstocco8797
    @annepstocco8797 2 місяці тому

    The judge gave legal custody and overnight visits to a diagnosed narc. The court doesnt care. Its not in their pay grade to care!

  • @soundsofrenaissanceseason4986
    @soundsofrenaissanceseason4986 2 місяці тому

    Hi, did you think about translating your packages and have it sent to other countries? Like, Spanish, for example?

    • @OneMomsBattle
      @OneMomsBattle 2 місяці тому

      We used to send it internationally, but we have needed to scale back

  • @junbug1love
    @junbug1love 2 місяці тому

    THIS IS A VIOLATION OF THE CONSTITUTION UNDER THE 13TH AMENDMENT ☝️🇺🇲

  • @junbug1love
    @junbug1love 2 місяці тому

    And to see that the children are being punished for the actions and relations of the parents is also absolutely outrageous😮

  • @junbug1love
    @junbug1love 2 місяці тому

    Apparently this has been going on for at least 10 years and I didn't even hear about it until just today...... It's unbelievable to me that this is being allowed in the United States and furthermore being promoted with no actual proof or foundation of progress or family improvement. It's Just another monkey wrench in America's wheel that is continuing to divide and destroy the families. If there's a separation of church and state...... The same principle should apply the court has no right to do what they're doing but somehow this loophole in the law has allowed this to be possible. THIS IS OUTRAGEOUS!!

  • @junbug1love
    @junbug1love 2 місяці тому

    THESE ARE COMMUNIST RE-EDUCATION CAMPS!! IN PLAIN ENGLISH THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT THEY ARE.

    • @brandonwhisnant4325
      @brandonwhisnant4325 Місяць тому

      I challenge you to some zoom meetings to see what parental alienation actually looks like and how this lady is out of her mind.

  • @user-zu2yh7wv6n
    @user-zu2yh7wv6n 2 місяці тому

    This is absolutely horrible !! This poor poor mother !

  • @YamCherie
    @YamCherie 2 місяці тому

    It is rarely in the best interest of the child, to completely sever ties with a parent. If the other parent was domestically abused, and the child is a witness, then you are correct that the child is thereby also a victim of abuse. Where there is/was abuse, children should have a right to continue a supervised relationship with the parent, as long as the benefits of doing so, outway concerns for the child's mental welbeing.

  • @traceyhuddleston5321
    @traceyhuddleston5321 2 місяці тому

    My children are 12 and 13. I have major concerns for my 13 year old who has expressed wishing for end of life. It's so difficult to navigate these situations.

  • @jacobmeis1249
    @jacobmeis1249 2 місяці тому

    Someday your children will see you for what you are and never speak to you again. You are the true abuser. I feel sooo sorry for your little girls, they do not understand how sick you are.

  • @themetatruthengineer1442
    @themetatruthengineer1442 2 місяці тому

    What was the reason that you couldn't get custody?

  • @haydenforder6235
    @haydenforder6235 3 місяці тому

    Thanks so many guys I know are dealing with narcissistic women .. this was really helpful

  • @Marie-sl8cm
    @Marie-sl8cm 3 місяці тому

    Same reason they do anything. Money, power, control, and to hurt you. Those are always their motivations for everything they do.

  • @Marie-sl8cm
    @Marie-sl8cm 3 місяці тому

    Yes I never bothered trying to get an official diagnosis for my ex because it’s not illegal or unlawful to have a personality disorder. A court is not going to care about a diagnosis.

  • @gretchenbaskerville8067
    @gretchenbaskerville8067 3 місяці тому

    Shocking. Law enforcement and medical professionals were involved, and the mother followed their direction, yet she lost custody. Unbelievable.

  • @sharonphelps4300
    @sharonphelps4300 3 місяці тому

    My goodness. I am so sorry to hear this. Praying that the Lord Jesus will give you favor and that He will turn things around for the good. I went through a similar situation years ago. There is still hope. Praying for you.

  • @elliea8868
    @elliea8868 3 місяці тому

    Bla bla bla get to the point

  • @victoriaserorian4892
    @victoriaserorian4892 3 місяці тому

    That judge should be fired. Sounds like her rulings are her revenging for this poor woman seeking to move her case to a different district and judge. These judges should not have this kind of absolute authority and be able dismiss evidence such as this judge did. Its so obvious the judge is flexing her "I'll show you who has the power muscles" for anyone who dares to nit accept her "almighty" rulings. I pray God will bring the judge down and full justice for this woman and her children will be soon forthcoming" in Jesus name I cry out for justice.

  • @patricialazalde8964
    @patricialazalde8964 3 місяці тому

    The ex has some type of connection to the judge. File to Supreme court and get her removed.

  • @marysmith9954
    @marysmith9954 3 місяці тому

    You need a better lawyer, but airing this on UA-cam may harm you rather than help you. I wish you the best

  • @Jesse-ol3om
    @Jesse-ol3om 3 місяці тому

    If the girl in this video is willing to please contact me. My girlfriend needs help and advice

  • @Scotiatims
    @Scotiatims 3 місяці тому

    anyone else here in Nova Scotia, Canada?

  • @Poppy-yx8js
    @Poppy-yx8js 3 місяці тому

    I’m not in a divorce and someone is cyberstalking me and putting this kind of irrelevant content in my account.